fix(tests): break the irtt-client/irtt-server dev-dependency cycle

irtt-client and irtt-server mutually dev-depended on each other for
cross-crate integration tests. That cycle blocks `cargo publish` for
either crate whenever the other doesn't already exist on the registry
at the required version, which is exactly the situation for a crate's
first-ever release (irtt-server has never been published before).

Introduce a new `irtt-integration-tests` crate (publish = false, no
library target) to own tests whose actual subject is the interaction
between two or more irtt-* production crates:

  crate-local behavior          -> crate's own tests/
  cross-crate/system behavior   -> irtt-integration-tests

Move every test that imports both irtt_client and irtt_server there:
the client-side support harness (hmac, large_packets, protocol_options,
fill_negotiation) and the server-side real-socket tests that drive a
real AsyncClient against a real Server (async_client, negotiation_policy,
fill_wire_bytes, traffic_class, wildcard_source). server_set.rs stays in
irtt-server/tests since it only uses irtt_proto as test machinery to
drive irtt-server directly, which is a normal one-directional test
dependency, not a peer relationship.

irtt-server's dev-dependency on irtt-client is dropped entirely now
that nothing under crates/irtt-server/tests needs it, which fully
breaks the cycle from that side.

irtt-client keeps a one-directional dev-dependency on irtt-server: a
handful of white-box unit tests in src/async_client/tests.rs assert on
private AsyncClient internals (socket, remote, test_hooks) while also
needing a real in-tree server for blocking/async equivalence checks, so
they can't move to an external crate without losing that access. Their
InTreeServer helper is duplicated locally rather than shared, matching
the existing precedent of irtt-cli's own tests/support/in_tree_server.rs.

crates/irtt-integration-tests/tests/protocol_options/backend_smoke.rs

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+use irtt_client::{Client, ClientEvent};
+use irtt_proto::{Clock, ReceivedStats, StampAt};
+
+use crate::support::{config_for_params, default_params, params_for_modes, BackendPeer};
+
+#[test]
+fn backend_basic_open_echo_close() {
+    let params = default_params();
+    let peer = BackendPeer::start_open_echo(None);
+    let mut client = Client::connect(config_for_params(peer.addr(), &params)).unwrap();
+
+    let outcome = client.open().unwrap();
+    assert!(matches!(outcome, irtt_client::OpenOutcome::Started { .. }));
+
+    let sent = client.send_probe().unwrap();
+    assert_eq!(sent.len(), 1);
+
+    let events = client.recv_once().unwrap();
+    assert_eq!(events.len(), 1);
+    assert!(matches!(events[0], ClientEvent::EchoReply { .. }));
+
+    client.close().unwrap();
+}
+
+#[test]
+fn backend_received_stats_smoke() {
+    for mode in [
+        ReceivedStats::None,
+        ReceivedStats::Count,
+        ReceivedStats::Window,
+        ReceivedStats::Both,
+    ] {
+        let params = params_for_modes(mode, StampAt::None, Clock::Both);
+        let peer = BackendPeer::start_open_echo(None);
+        let mut client = Client::connect(config_for_params(peer.addr(), &params)).unwrap();
+
+        client.open().unwrap();
+        client.send_probe().unwrap();
+        let events = client.recv_once().unwrap();
+        assert_eq!(events.len(), 1);
+        assert!(matches!(events[0], ClientEvent::EchoReply { .. }));
+
+        client.close().unwrap();
+    }
+}
+
+#[test]
+fn backend_timestamp_smoke() {
+    for mode in [
+        StampAt::None,
+        StampAt::Send,
+        StampAt::Receive,
+        StampAt::Both,
+        StampAt::Midpoint,
+    ] {
+        let params = params_for_modes(ReceivedStats::None, mode, Clock::Both);
+        let peer = BackendPeer::start_open_echo(None);
+        let mut client = Client::connect(config_for_params(peer.addr(), &params)).unwrap();
+
+        client.open().unwrap();
+        client.send_probe().unwrap();
+        let events = client.recv_once().unwrap();
+        assert_eq!(events.len(), 1);
+
+        match &events[0] {
+            ClientEvent::EchoReply {
+                server_timing,
+                one_way,
+                ..
+            } => match mode {
+                StampAt::None => {
+                    assert!(server_timing.is_none());
+                    assert!(one_way.is_none());
+                }
+                StampAt::Send => {
+                    let st = server_timing.as_ref().unwrap();
+                    assert!(st.send_wall_ns.is_some() || st.send_mono_ns.is_some());
+                }
+                StampAt::Receive => {
+                    let st = server_timing.as_ref().unwrap();
+                    assert!(st.receive_wall_ns.is_some() || st.receive_mono_ns.is_some());
+                }
+                StampAt::Both => {
+                    let st = server_timing.as_ref().unwrap();
+                    assert!(st.receive_wall_ns.is_some() || st.receive_mono_ns.is_some());
+                    assert!(st.send_wall_ns.is_some() || st.send_mono_ns.is_some());
+                }
+                StampAt::Midpoint => {
+                    let st = server_timing.as_ref().unwrap();
+                    assert!(st.midpoint_wall_ns.is_some() || st.midpoint_mono_ns.is_some());
+                }
+            },
+            other => panic!("expected EchoReply, got {other:?}"),
+        }
+
+        client.close().unwrap();
+    }
+}
+
+#[test]
+fn backend_clock_smoke() {
+    for clock in [Clock::Wall, Clock::Monotonic, Clock::Both] {
+        let params = params_for_modes(ReceivedStats::None, StampAt::Both, clock);
+        let peer = BackendPeer::start_open_echo(None);
+        let mut client = Client::connect(config_for_params(peer.addr(), &params)).unwrap();
+
+        client.open().unwrap();
+        client.send_probe().unwrap();
+        let events = client.recv_once().unwrap();
+        assert_eq!(events.len(), 1);
+
+        match &events[0] {
+            ClientEvent::EchoReply { server_timing, .. } => {
+                let st = server_timing.as_ref().unwrap();
+                match clock {
+                    Clock::Wall => {
+                        assert!(st.receive_wall_ns.is_some());
+                        assert!(st.send_wall_ns.is_some());
+                    }
+                    Clock::Monotonic => {
+                        assert!(st.receive_mono_ns.is_some());
+                        assert!(st.send_mono_ns.is_some());
+                    }
+                    Clock::Both => {
+                        assert!(st.receive_wall_ns.is_some());
+                        assert!(st.receive_mono_ns.is_some());
+                        assert!(st.send_wall_ns.is_some());
+                        assert!(st.send_mono_ns.is_some());
+                    }
+                    Clock::Unspecified => {
+                        unreachable!("clients never request an unspecified clock")
+                    }
+                }
+            }
+            other => panic!("expected EchoReply, got {other:?}"),
+        }
+
+        client.close().unwrap();
+    }
+}